You’re not imagining it.
The old maps no longer seem to work.
What once helped orient your relationships, purpose, identity, and work feels less reliable.
This doesn’t mean panic.
You just need a different map.
We’re living through profound change in the world and within us.
Many thoughtful, capable people are finding:
Familiar strategies don’t stabilise them
Effort isn’t producing results
A feeling of disorientation
Relating to the future is harder.
This isn’t failure.
It’s what happens when inherited maps stop matching the terrain.
What we need isn’t escape or hopium but something quieter — and yes, harder.
What we need
Clear Seeing
Understand what’s happening in you and around you, without distortion or self-deception.Committed Action
Make decisions, set boundaries, and follow through, even when certainty isn’t available.Depth with Others
Open to feeling, intimacy and complexity, rather than withdrawing or armouring.Sovereignty
Develop the self-trust and stability to meet life with soulful purpose.
Before going any further…
Pause a moment and ask yourself
What rules no longer work for me?
Don’t analyse.
Just notice what comes up.
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